making friends is a skill like many other skills. it improves with practice. if you want to meet people and make friends, you must be willing to take some actions. you must first go where there are people. you won’t make friends staying home alone. join a club or a group. taking with those who like the same things as you do is much easier. or join someone in some activities. many people are nervous when talking to new people. after all meeting strangers means facing the unknown. and it’s human nature to feel a bit uncomfortable about the unknown. most of our fears about dealing with new people come from doubts about ourselves. we imagine other people are judging us of finding us too tall or to short, too this or too that. but don’t forget that they must be feeling the same way. try to accept yourself as you are and try to put the other person at ease. you’ll both feel more comfortable.
try to be self-comfident even if you don’t feel that way. when you enter a room full of strangers, such as a new classroom, walk tall and straight, look directly at other people and smile.
if you see someone you like to speak to, say something . don’t wait for the other person to start a conversation.
just meeting someone new does not mean that you will make friends with that person-friendship is based on mutual liking and “give and take”. it takes time and effort to develop.
一、追加成分,扩展句子。在阅读理解中遇到长句子时,我们要学会通过找句子主干,把长句子缩短;而在写作文时,我们则要反其道而行,针对目标句子,我们在要点基础上适当添加合乎逻辑的附加成分,如定语(从句)、状语(从句)、非谓语结构、独立主格等成分,使表达更清晰,主题更突出。
二、补加语句,充实文章。根据作文的行文走向,适当增加一些与主题相关的语句,或根据作文题目中提示的要点,恰如其分地衍生出一些句子,即能够起到“前引后联”的作用,又可以补充一些相关信息,帮助读者理解所写内容。此外,还可以起到协调句式,避免单调的作用。
三、重点突出,详加描述。在对文章进行展开时,除了可以采用前文提到的添加追加成分、过渡成分来拓展句子外,我们还可以根据题目提示,确定整篇文章的主要点和次要点,在主要点上着力发挥,次要点表述清楚即可,不用过多渲染。